Q&A (2022/01/23):
Verse 125 in The Way to Buddhahood:
Lower people give for the sake of themselves.
Middle people give for their own liberation.
Those who give all for the benefit of others
Are called great people.
1. Is it better not to give if you do not have the proper attitude? How will it affect the giver's Karma? Merit?
~> My personal opinion for your reference is that although the mentality is not quite right, it is still encourage to practice Giving. Giving is a good deed after all, if the state of mind is not very good, there will still be a tiny amount of merit.
~> As for the bad karma, they usually manifested from the defilement mind. Therefore, if we want to avoid bad results, we should gradually subdue your afflictions, rather than give up generosity altogether.
Verse 126 in The Way to Buddhahood:
The giving of wealth, dharma, and fearlessness
Is difficult but should be sympathetic and sincere.
The joy that comes from hearing of the need to give
Is superior to the happiness of Nirvāṇa.
2a. What are the qualities of the 3rd Dyhana mentioned in VS 126
2b. Can you explain supreme happiness? or is it unexplainable at our level?
~> When it comes to "joy", there are the material and sensory "joy" that come from the Sensual (desire) Realm, and the “joy” that comes from meditation in the Form Realm. In terms of the nature of "joy", the joy of material things is definitely not as good as the joy of meditation.
~> Likewise, the joy of the first jhāna is naturally inferior to the joy of the second jhāna; the joy of the second jhāna is naturally not as good as the joy of the third jhāna.
~> When a person attain the fourth jhāna, there is only right mindfulness, equanimity, and right concentration in the fourth jhāna, without the slightest sign of joy. That's why the third jhāna is called superior worldly happiness — the highest experience of joy in the world.
~> The “Supreme happiness” mentioned here is the joy that arises from the heart of a bodhisattva practitioner when he learns that he has the opportunity to give. It's like some inner feelings are really indescribable.